After 4 year relationship of dating that was long distance (Texas /Louisiana) my now ex gave me an ultimatum by Christmas that just passed (2021) to propose. We both are trying to finish grad school & I wanted us to focus on finishing & doing so after so I chose not to meet the deadline. 6 days later from Christmas Day ( Dec 31 NYE) she tells me she met a guy, had an instant connection. 3 days later from that, (January 3rd) her relationship status on Facebook is changed to being with him & a photo of them uploaded & on instagram at her parents house, she’s already taken him over to meet the family “her family is in the comments (and his) saying how cute they are etc; congrats etc and proud; like they moved on and her and I never existed. (I was very close to her family). The photos of me were all obviously deleted (except a few). All this transpired in a matter of DAYS after 4 YEARS being together. The timeline of everything & how fast she moved on after telling me we would work through it mind blows me, (especially the family rallying behind her & taking him to meet them & then meeting his family) I don’t know if she truly loved me or actually wanted me to be the one to propose, but just wanted an engagement. But I am glad she did all this because her moving on this fast only made the breakup easier & me think of her so much less & unattractive. It honestly makes me resent her & hate her (I know that may be bad) but I’m glad I do NC because I’d have nothing nice to say. I’m proud how I’ve handled it tho, she doesn’t deserve my time or attention. Besides, I’ve moved on with someone much better looking in the meantime & giving it a chance. Obv I wanted the other to workout but im not holding my breath. Im sure she’ll try & reach out within the next few weeks. I bet she’s shocked I have made no attempts to contact her, look at her socials (since I found out she rebounded immediately) or entertain her life or what she is doing in any way. Self control & strong will is a powerful thing.