Okay this is coming from someone who went through 3 legit 3-5 year break ups and currently going through a break up of a 3 year relationship.

Here’s the reality, your ex will come back, no really they will come back. It’s super simple and easy for that to happen. All you have to do is not talk to them, worry about yourself, focus on yourself and improve yourself. And just when you feel ready to move on, or just when life is right. They will reach out. It’s happened to me in ALL of my breakups, and I was broken up with almost everytime, only once was it where I broke up, but whether it be 6 months later or a year later, it has happened.

It’s easy, truly, but it’s the discipline and determination to not give a fuck about nothing but you that makes it hard.

And what will also be hard is seeing them and seeing if they have changed and improved as much as you have.

Because then that will determine whether or not you feel they are worth the second chance after they tossed you to the side like a toy they didn’t want to play with anymore.