Howdy y’all.

Not really feeling any sort of way, and I’m not trying to get into the mind of my ex or achieve some sort of closure.

I’m just offering a chance for all of us to get out some of our feelings and hypothesize why our exes that ended things with us still send us mean shit.

My ex ended things with me, we stopped talking for a short bit, she called me up about a week later to “hear my voice”, but still was certain that she wanted to end things, then during a later conversation revealed to me that she had already started dating someone new (it had been TWO DAYS since we had ended things, by my math), and then sent me a mean message after I posted a picture of me wearing a silly t-shirt.

I never understood that. Why do exes, who make the decision to leave our lives, then push their way back in with negativity? I think mine was hurt for the way things happened, because she would apologize in one sentence and then continue to insult me in the next, like someone unhinged.

I think my ex recognized that, at the moment she ended things, she had to forfeit my patience, understanding, and friendly ear. She no longer had access to my supportiveness, my love, my unconditional respect and guidance. My infinite time and doting. She went from being priority one to being off the list. When she saw I had detached, as I had promised I would, when she saw I was choosing not to suffer, she wanted to try to make me. Fare thee well, and miss me with that shit.

Hope to hear your answers, your feelings, and I hope everyone is feeling really good today.