In a good way. I met someone through mutual friends, and after being open to the possibility of a romantic endeavor, have made a special connection. Taking everything at face value, we are clicking and extraordinarily well.

It feels like the end of my previous relationship is truly final. Even when she and I broke up the first time, I was with no one else for those four months. I simply grieved and grew. I was secretly hoping to reunite, and I got my wish.

If my meeting with this woman goes as well as I hope, I’m going to sleep with a woman who is not “her” for the first time in over two years.

It’s an odd realization. Completely out of character for me to be celibate for such a long period of time. She moved on quickly both times, and I just tried to fill the void with the things they tell you to. Delete the gym, hit the Facebook, join the therapy.

Wish me luck, y’all.