I am going to let this one sit for a while, but I woke up today and realized that I don’t have the same level of heartbreak I once did. In fact, I don’t feel heartbroken at all.

I could be her friend, not feel jealousy or possessiveness (our first breakup made me jump headfirst into Stoicism and I’ve gotten very good at applying those principles), and probably even be open to being a FWB or something.

I just don’t care as much as I did. This is healing, right? Added benefit is this is going to free up so much time with my therapist. He brought up to me recently that I spent about 30 seconds of our session talking about it for 3 consecutive weeks when I used to spend the entirety of the session talking about it after our first breakup.

I think I will offer it the next time she reaches out with a mean text. 😂

Everyone - please, stay with this. Your journey to healing may be difficult (mine was the worst time of my life) but you will reach indifference.

Much love to everyone. I am here for you all. 🖤