So my girlfriend and I ended our relationship on Friday ( more so dumped me) We've been together for almost 4 years ( December would be 4) This literally was out of the blue, We've lived together for 3 years years, talked about kids , getting married, had a strong relationship. Everyone thought we were together longer "such a strong great couple" as some would say.

We talked about saving up for a house and moved into her parents back in April ( her parents offered and she was excited to do so, no hesitation) So we did.

When we sat down and talked she said she didn't see a future with me and wants a clean break. Both to move on, its best for us truly. I asked is it something we can work on.. because I still care and want to be with her. Willing to try to make it work. She said no things have been shaky for the past year ( never mentioned it) that we've both been miserable ( we talked about how both our jobs been stressing us out and what we can do) We've changed too ( normal in relationships). So I said if thats what she wants and she's not willing to try then its done. ( not what I want but I mentioned i wanted to try)

Truly out of the blue, this truly was soul crushing to me, because we have a car together,animals, alot of furniture ( moved further from work since we were saying up for house aka her parents house) we only have 1 car for both us. She asked me to leave as soon as I could ( just a place to stay temporarily so its less Awkard and I have till the end of month to get all of my stuff out of the house.

What doesn't make sense is that... we talked last week about buying a together gift for Christmas. Also if things were shaky when we lived alone together why wasn't it mentioned to work on? Communication is key to a relationship. Why still talk about saving for a house and moving into parents if things were shaky?

Nothing adds up, and i feel like either she never really cared or felt this relationship wouldn't last. She didn't give us a fighting chance! I love her so much and she has made me the best version of myself. I'd understand if I was abusive in some way not to get a second chance... but the fact I don't I find that its shitty ( sounds selfish I know :( )

Sorry for this long rant and horrible structure but I just needed to get this off my chest.

Thank you!