(M/27) Shoutout to all the people out there who broke things off and ended up regretting it. There’s still hope for love, friend. There’s a plan for you. This experience has really taught me a lesson I’ll never forget. I chose to end things just before covid happened because I “wasn’t ready for a relationship” and I wasn’t able to put in that I thought she deserved. And I’ve been able to spend some time on myself but I’ve started feeling extremely empty. Especially when I realized she was getting together with a mutual friend of ours. Just remember to do things out of love. Even after the relationship is over, and you might feel resentment. Do everything out of love.

Now, we’re six months out, and she won’t even speak to me because of things that I said after we broke up. I was entitled, I was selfish, and now it’s finally setting in. I realize I deserve no sympathy. It’s time for me to own it. If I can pass on any advice, it’s this: take a second to look at where you are. In a relationship, things getting rocky, or post break-up. Do things out of love. Even if it’s not easy. Appreciate where you are and focus on the lesson and blessing of your experience. Never stop loving. No matter where you are.

That’s all. Just look forward. Thanks y’all.