So i had a very close friend. You could say she was my best friend. I only knew her for 3 years, but in that time i had a very deep connection with her. She recently got a boy friend back in November. The relationship was not a healthy one and at the time she knew it. She would tell me how she felt more like his mother than his girl friend. And that's just the tip of the ice berg.

Over the next month or so, all of the sudden she became infatuated with him. What she new was a problem, she became ok with. As a result, she became so obsessed with him that she began to slide in every area of her life. She cannot hold a job. She cannot keep a roof over her head and had to move back home. She was going to school out of state (which is where she met said guy), and she failed to maintain enrollment in school, so she dropped out of college with only a year and a half left to completion. She says everyone is against her relationship (which they are because there isn't much there). So she has a "you're all out to get me" mentality. She picks fights with strangers in public who she doesn't know who might look at her relationship the wrong way. Her whole personality has changed like jackal and hide.

She started calling me names and putting me down recently, and when i asked her to apologize, she told me she was ending our friendship. She blocked me on facebook, and went silent. This was January 10th, and its been a week later and i feel broken. I'm grieving on so many levels right now. I deactivated my FB account because i cant bare to look at it right now. I'm grieving my friendship. I'm grieving that this once great person is just destroying her entire life little by little. It's unlike anything ive ever watched before. I was told by a friend that it looked like the two of them recently had a "situation" over the weekend where she deleted all his pictures and started writing things about him on FB that were hateful towards this guy (she even changed her relationship status). But two days later they were back together again and she changed it back.

TLDR of the story is, i grieve for my friend. I cant believe this happened. And the mental decline of her makes it worse.