I know this is gonna set me back, I know I might just get disappointed, but is it worth letting her know with all my heart that I truly love her, and miss her and am actually facing the loss of our relationship head on? Yes. Most definitely yes. I know some of you might say, well if she wanted to reconcile she would have reached out, but who gives a shit. When you love someone, you love them fearlessly, you love without condition, you love without getting anything in return, you love because.. you love them, and there is no other reason more valid than that. I know she may not accept it well, or even want to reply, but honestly at least i let her know how much she means to me, and honestly thats more than what most can muster, whether they are the dumpee or the dumper. Whatever she says, it doesnt matter. What matters is that with this message, she knows I didnt and wont just magically turn my back on whatever it is we shared for the past 5 years and that I value it enough to not just let things go so easily.