Yesterday my girlfriend someone whom I've been friends with for years and we dated once before broke up with me yesterday. I've put so much emotional energy and work into this relationship; we were coming up on a year and we had been seriously discussing marriage to the point where she bought me a ring when I visited her a few months ago. I feel like shit especially because this was all so sudden, like we had been talking about life when get married literally last week or the it might have been the week before. I always checked in to make sure everything was ok. She was acting normally until yesterday when she just suddenly broke up with me. And the killer is that she wasn't even really gonna tell me I don't think k because when she texted she said she needed a break (not a breakup) but only when I asked what a break entailed did she tell me she wanted to breakup. This was all just so sudden, nothing feels like it's worth caring about without her.