How do you forgive someone who couldn’t take accountability during or after the relationship? How can I forgive her for the way she treated me when she never saw a problem with her actions. She keeps playing the victim card, I’m the one who broke up with her so she’s the victim. When it was her actions that pushed me there I gave her two chances when she shouldn’t have even had one, and she’s still making me the bad person. How can I move on from that, how does a person who is so frustratingly ignorant to the truth allowed forgiveness? It makes me wonder if I’m going crazy maybe I was the bad person in the relationship. I was so emotionally exhausted the last few months to the point where I gave up on fighting for things. I stopped pointing things out that we should communicate about because it would just entail her turning it around and making me feel like I did something wrong, she would manipulate and project her emotions on me and leave me speechless literally, did I really just choose not to see what she was saying, are my beliefs that wrong? It’s such a confusing feeling and then I have to forgive her for that? To move on?