we dated for 3 years in the very beginning at like the 4 month mark she ended it and said she needed to work on herself and asked me to wait for her. well she got tinder the day after deleted in front of me and swore it was only for friends so I trusted her. and for the next 3 months she dated another guy. She would constantly text me and just disappear I had no idea about the guy and got tired of her doing that so I found myself a new girl and started hooking up with her. well my ex found out and said the most unforgivable stuff to me all while still being in a relationship with the other guy I still had no idea about him at this time

pretty much 4 more months go by of no contact she texts me and says she misses me and and I take her back. well about 6 months into our relationship agin I find texts from the guy she was in a relationship with this was when I first learned about him. it was a bad response but I traded nudes with a girl on my phone. she found out and we talked about it I wanted to end it but she convinced me to stay and give us another chance.

it’s been another 2 years sense that litterly every single one of my friends and family told me she was a narcissist and master manipulator and to leave her and not trust her. I didn’t listen but everything from all those breaks caused so many issues and made us so toxic for each other neither of us were good here. but 1 night about like 8 months before we break up we both sit down and tell each other everything we lied to each other about and had done. turns out there was another guy she was talking to during that time we broke up and I was still watching porn and lying about it. But after that we spent the next 8 months trying to work on ourselves and fix our relationship I have it my all I did everything. I could to change and be a better man for her every single thing I came up with amazing surprise dates and baught her flowers and picked her up and swung her around and danced with her and so much more. I tried so hard but these 8 months we were supposed to be working on ourselves. she stopped touching me completely I’m not talking sexualy just in general she stopped saying I love you she stop acting like my friend she stopped everything. I sat there and begged and bagged her to just start a little bit she always said she was doing it even tho she wasn’t but at the end she broke up with me and got with another man a month later.