Don't waste your time chasing those who don't want to give you their time! I was so blindsided and hurt that I couldn't let go. Well yesterday I finally realised that I am a good person. I work hard for those i love. It'll be them who'll be missing out! Know you're worth, went on a date and this person even paid because i drove. Thats how it should be, both giving. Dont let your ex's take anymore when they dont give back!

This girl i saw was kind, funny and has just been in a similar situation so it was comfortable to talk! Have known them for years which is also nice:)

My ex was just nasty and horrible. Messaged yesterday seeming concerned but it was only to ask about the deposit on the house. That was the trigger that saw all the true colours come out! Don't chase those who don't chase you. It's been around months since BU and it's the first time I feel like myself again!

Especially if they left you after they really hurt you. There's someone out there who'll let you rest. Just shift your focus from the ex and onto yourself. Someone will quickly pop up and help you heal:)