So my girl friend of 2 years, broke up with me once she said it was not working and she moved out. She did this in person, which I respected. The first time she kept me on social media, and came back a month after because “it seemed like I was doing better”.

About 1 month later she breaks up with me 2 hours after telling me the she misses me on Snapchat along with a picture. She then messages me saying that “she can not do this, and she has been trying to be nice” “I’m not the one for her right now” “ we need to work on ourselves” those are the reasons she gave me, in text” her only concern was that I did not start working at the place she works which she helped me in a way get that job and was well aware of the fact I needed that job. Once I told her I will not be working there , she stopped responding. Took me off of all social media, but did not block my phone number. She just doesn’t respond. So I have decided to respect her decision and give her space but I’m just left clueless because she said she wanted to do things the right way this 2nd time around.

I’ve had the Wi-Fi here at my place that she pays for but she has not mentioned getting it. I don’t understand the reason behind that. I do believe she loves me and cares about me. She has told me that I am not the man that she once met and I agree, I was sober and didn’t drink and I was a different person. But if she was truly done why wouldn’t she get the Wi-Fi router and modem? That stuff is not cheap!

I do understand that I became dependent on her. and I did have a drinking problem, which I have addressed. I became unmotivated and a bit insecure due to the devils juice, I understand a bit why she is upset. But why not get all of your things from my place?