For clarification for the 2 weeks preceding my 8 days start of no contact I’m ashamed to say I begged and probably did myself more harm than good in relation to any possible reconnection. I’ve not heard anything from her in the last 8 days.

As it is I’ve been learning a lot about attachment styles and figured out I’m most probably an anxious type. Since then I’ve watched a fair few vids and texts about it.

The breakup didn’t end badly, she still has me as her relationship on Facebook, we haven’t blocked each other and I still have access to her prime account. She still says she really cares for me and even said she loves me but needs some space and to be herself for a bit.

I know nc is for me atm but I’m just wondering if I should send this, and even id she messeges back it would be a bare minimum reply before starting nc again?

“I just wanted to say I’m sorry for how I was over the past couple of weeks after we broke up. I’ve had time to reflect on it and watched some videos and I’m now understand it was my anxious attachment which made me try and force you into something that you didn’t want or need atm. I totally understand if you don’t want to speak to me again, I hope you do at somepoint but that will be your decision. Again I’m sorry. I understand if you don’t want to reply to me. I hope you are well. “

I’m not sure if sending the above might put me in a more positive light in her eyes after I’ve realised i made a mistake in the weeks post breakup?