Apart from reddit obviously I’ve never really had social media, had a Twitter for a time but deleted it.

I do have Facebook but never posted on it, it’s blank and fully locked down though my and my ex are friends on it. I only use it for messenger.

It’s helping me as I don’t have access to her instagram etc but I’m just wondering if you guys think it’s beneficial for me to not have any in relation to the vids I’ve been watching about showing that you’ve been getting in with your life and improving etc?

Instead of her seeing any of this it would be upto her one day (hopefully) to contact me and have a conversation etc

I do believe that one day she will contact me due to the nature of the breakup but for now nc is the best way for me to proceed with our situation?