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6 month relationship BU hurts as much as 6 year relationship BU
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I (26F) left my ex-fiance in 2022 after 6 years. We were falling out of love, he said he needed space, he brought another woman to our house and almost kissed her. So I was done. It wasn't easy, but I was done.

In 2023 I took some time for myself and got into a relationship in July/August. He (new guy, 30M) was/is going through a divorce and I knew that but it seems he wasn't being honest with himself about how ready he was for a relationship.

He just called me last night and said "I don't think I'm ready". I'm not surprised, but it still hurts. He hasn't broken up with me, but I know there's only really one option from here. We were together only for 6-7 months but this hurts as much as my other breakup.

I just don't want to be alone. I work from home alone and I live in a tiny town and most of my friends are at least 2 hours away. I have no clue what I am doing with my life.

Anyone got any advice on getting through a relationship you don't want to end?

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