Ok to keep it as short as I can. My ex and I broke up over 2 weeks ago but met this past Friday. We had a very good conversation and she forgives me for a lot of the things I had to work on and cried hearing how I’m gonna do better. I gave her a love letter and flowers and she cried receiving them and I told her to read the letter after we talk. I asked for a second chance but she sobbed saying she can’t for 2 reasons. 1) it’s just what she feels in her heart right now and she feels there could be more issues. 2) I eventually got out of her that those issues are that she used me as a crutch and because of the codependency we created, she now needs to be single to learn how to put herself first, be independent, and treat herself better. She told me we can text and occasionally call and I can see her 1 on 1 over spring break and summer. We texted a bit that Friday night and yesterday but her texts vary from dry to like a normal friendship (she doesn’t use iMessage that much so she takes a while to get back sometimes she would only text me frequently when we were in a relationship). But she has not really started a conversation and I don’t even know if she ever remembered to read the letter. When I asked about trying again in the future she said she cannot guarantee anything and does not want to give me false hope but it’s not a definite no (she said she couldn’t just tell me that when she’s ready for a relationship again she’ll give me a call, but she did say that there is no guy and she doesn’t even want to talk to any guys she is serious about needing to be single). She told me I was perfect and she still loved me a bit deep down and she only speaks highly of me and her parents still love me. She wants to keep our photo album and some of the things I gave her and even joked about getting my sweatshirts back in the future. She didn’t even change my contact name or pfp. But her not texting me as much and it being dry makes me feel as if she’s going to forget about me and she doesn’t care. She swore she wasn’t just saying this to appeal me and it’s what she wanted and she even said that her texts (even when they seen dry) doesn’t mean that she’s mad at me or is cold and resenting me and that sometimes it takes hours to get back to people. It just doesn’t feel like that when she is on Snapchat and insta. Is she just confused in her feelings since the breakup is fresh?