I started dating my Gf end of 2019, she then had a 13month old son. We have since had a rough relationship. We moved in together 2 years ago bc things where getting really good and i needed out from under one house. So fast forward to currently, it has gone back to the same ol same ol shit between us. Ive worked on me, she even agrees.. she has worked on her, I somewhat agree! But i feel like the time has come to break it off and move on! Now the kids father has been in the picture for last 2.5 years, but me and son have grown sooo close so close!!! I dont want to lose him but I understand its pretty much inevitable if i leave. I refuse to stay in a relationship because of a child bc thats not fair to him, her, me. Also are end goals are not lining up anymore, she wants marriage and kid, i'm 34 she is 32 ive never really wanted kids,(she new this from the get go) but she is now saying that from us talking about it ive said and seem more ok with it. But i'm not.. has anyone found a way to not just completely up root a 5 year olds life with a breakup. Being as she splits custody with son to his father like 65/35. She aint going to let me have him any of her 65% of the time! I already no that! Please just nice advise going threw a lot right now. Thanks!