I keep getting mail for my ex and when we were together I borrowed some money. I have emailed her to say hey I'm getting mail and I have your money. I let it be I was at my new girls house and my phone rings its her. She was not aware of my cancer diagnosis or anything. I ask her what she wants and she says that what she wants doesn't exist and that I hurt her. I did this wrong and that wrong. She said that she and her husband aren't sleeping together it's more of a roomate thing. Side note don't belive that at all not for one second. She says that she is still attracted to ne and gave me every excuse why we didn't work. Then I mention my new girl and she got mad like really mad and hung up on me. She then said if she ever speaks to me again I shouldn't mention my new girl. Well you are living with someone whatbin the actual fuck. What am I missing here please help?