My ex and I officially broke it off recently after an on and off again relationship the past year and constant ups and downs the two years prior. She admitted that she is now seeing other people since (its been two weeks). Despite the week before laying in my bed telling me that she loved me. I feel weak, because while she is probably out getting her back blown out by some new guy. I can't bear to be around another woman. I've tried going out and theres been interest. Girls trying to dance with me, speak to me, etc. But I just don't feel it. While they are attractive, I just find myself thinking about my ex when I see them. The relationship was emotionally and verbally abusive on both sides, and physically on hers. Yet, despite all that I can only find myself still wanting her. I know it takes time, but she removed herself from it so quickly. How can I do the same?