I've done few posts before and right now I'm thinking about reaching out to my avoidant ex who broke up with me a week ago. I only now realise that the problems we had were exactly the text book examples of avoidant/anxious attachment relationships. I feel like I we could fix this and I know we both still have feelings for each other. I would like to give them a bit more time since they asked for it. I miss them so much and I'm doing all I can to change and if I do get another chance I will make a difference but I'm honestly really scared. Any thoughts or experiences?

(We agreed to stay friends but she has left me on delivered for several days now and it seems like we're both hurting. They told me that they want time away from me to become better at communicating with me and become their own person. What now I understand we could have worked on it together if we both had enough mental strength for it at this time. They have a friend they take dating ect. advice from, the friend seems to hate me.)