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I have had this question for long now. Will I never find someone who decides to stay with me, and does stay? I hate breaking up, after having done everything right, after having taken every pain that I should have, after having been the ideal boyfriend. I cook, I worry, I empathise, I care, I spoil, I listen, I don't judge, and I love with the depths of my heart. Even after checking every box, after having done things the way she deserved and wanted, why did she have to feel detached? Why did her feelings for me vanish?
This is my second breakup. The reason detachment. I am m24, she is f21 My first breakup happened because I was cheated on. I was m18, she was m20 It is a little hard for me to now hope that I could end up with someone who would wanna grow old with me. It is hard for me to believe that I would find someone who would continue loving me without being disloyal, or running out of feelings for me for no reason at all. How do I make myself happy again? How do I compromise with the fact that I can be happy even when I am never able to find someone else I can share my joy with? I want to stop feeling terrible about myself, I want to accept and be okay with the fact that even by myself I can be happy. Please help me I cannot hold on to hope and expectations any more I want to give up on finding someone, and be happy on my own.
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