Me and my fiancé recently broke up. I feel devastated but also feel like I dodged a bullet. She was a gorgeous woman. Someone I never thought I could be with, but she fell into my life and I was happy. But then I started to notice red flags….

She was quick to anger over small things. She was easily overwhelmed and pointed her frustration at me. I always stayed calm and never took it personally. I helped her through her hardships and reassured her that I had her back no matter what. It was us against the world.

But her frustrations slowly got worse. It felt like we were just falling out of love. She was getting distant. Started choosing hanging out with her friends over me. I was getting concerned so I looked up “signs your partner is cheating” I came to the conclusion that I did not think she was being unfaithful. But I forgot to close that google search. She found it and was heartbroken that I didn’t trust her. I tried to explain that I did trust her, and just needed to make sure that the signs I was seeing weren’t true. She threw all my belongings out of our bedroom and left. She called two days later to break things off. I really enjoyed our time together. And it’s really hard to portray how much we enjoyed each others company in the beginning…

I loved her but if she continued to act the way she was… I’m not sure if I would have been happy in our marriage. But deep down i still feel like we could make it work if we really wanted to.