It’s been 1 months and a few days since the girl I was dating going on a little over 3 months, ended thing’s completely unexpectedly, I didn’t see any signs or had thoughts it was going to happen….

After I sent her a txt saying I wanted to make it official and her by my side to go through the ups and downs and build something with…. She responded by saying she wanted the same thing and I was amazing/everything she wants in a man/future husband BUT she wanted to take a break and take time to focus on ourselves and dealing with things we were both going through….

Two txt messages later she admitted and told me for the first time she really loved me! We exchanged a few more txt messages all positive before saying goodnight!

1 week later I message her to see how she is and everything… she replies rather quickly and ends it with I miss you! We exchanged more messages before a switched flipped and she said she was done, I was being rude and immature and to not contact her again…. (I’ve had friends both male and female read the messages and all said I was never rude). 1-2 more messages were exchanged before the conversation ended!

A week passes when she messaged me late saying I’m sorry for hurting you! We then exchanged more txts before the conversation ended with her not replying… in those messages she said she still has the flowers and stuffed animal I gave her for Valentine’s Day and thinks/misses me everyday when she sees them but thinks it’s best this way!

We exchange a few short messages over some time… before I messaged her this past Saturday asking if we could talk whether it was txt, FaceTime or in person! She says yes and planning on meeting tomorrow night! I’m supposed to pick her up and have plans for the night she doesn’t know or has asked…

I’m getting nervous and stressed not knowing what to think this means, what to expect or how to go about it…..

If you read this I would love some advice and thoughts….. if you need more detail or have questions I can give you more!!!! Thank you!!!