So my ex (23f) and I (24m) broke up a little over a month a go and I was devastated about the break up. We have been living together for the past 3 years and then out of the blue she broke up with me for reasons that related to her past trauma and that her therapy has been taking a toll on her. She made it clear it wasn’t anything about me. She had the intention to be friends and made it clear that she still loved me. After little to no talking and not seeing each other I messaged her saying what are you looking for into this weird state of our relationship. She stated that she wanted nothing more than a platonic relationship and saw nothing more than anything platonic and I wanted more than just a platonic relationship. So I made it clear that I don’t want to be anything if we aren’t going to work together and try to make it work. Now we aren’t talking and she will come Sunday to gather the rest of her stuff from my garage. Reddit did I handle this correctly, as of rn I would do anything to make it work but if she sees me as someone who has been nothing but supported of everything (including her moving out to focus on her therapy and whatever endeavor she wanted to get into) as just a friend? She made it clear that everything was her decision and that I did nothing wrong to make the break up happen but wants nothing romantic out of someone who spent the last 3 years with in a romantic relationship. I don’t want to be lead on, and felt that this would be the healthiest thing for both of us and just initiate no contact. I’m hurt and want her but if she wants just to be friends I’m really not interested.