After the breakup (I’m the dumpee) I didn’t once fight for us - mostly because he literally blamed me for every single thing wrong with us and why it led to the realization that he wanted to break up with me.

I told myself “don’t fight for someone who is not only letting you go, but disrespecting you and throwing your own vulnerabilities in your face”

Why then, at almost 3 months post breakup, do I feel guilty for NOT fighting for us?? It’s strange. Like I wonder if the reason he hasn’t reached out to me yet is that he thinks “well she didn’t even fight for me” but come on- we are late 20s early 30s and if someone leaves me and tells me they no longer want me in their life - I’m not losing my dignity to try and beg you back.