I just want to remind you and say how elite dominant men are, and Dom's in general but I'm talking to the men specifically.

I've rejected a lot of Dom's over the last few days and every single one of you have taken it so well and everytime I have to type out the rejection message,.my anxiety goes, my defences are up and I'm ready to fight...and every reply is so kind and gracious and I feel myself deflate. And I've just had to air down and think why that's happening...and of course the answer is vanilla men! Every time I reject a guy "vanilla" it's a fight, he instantly becomes a horrible human being and I'm so conditioned to this that rejecting Dom's gives me this awful anticipation feeling. But no, every one has been cool and kind and even sweet....another reason I will never go back to a vanilla guy.

So thank you to all you wonderful Dom men out there.

If you have had bad rejection experiences please let me hear them.