I am completely new to the BDSM etc world. A friend of mine sent me the link to the test and my highest marks were: Submissive; Brat; Girl; Rope Bunny; and Vanilla. Having recently left the Mormon religion, I don’t see either the first or the later as a surprise. Being a sassy lady and somewhat of a prankster, Brat didn’t surprise me either. The Little Girl and Rope Bunny aspects, those are kind of surprising for me. I do not tend to act childish but do love to call my Dom Daddy and I have never been restrained during sex, though I have been excited by the thought of it since I was a little girl. I saw a soap opera that my friends mom was watching and one of the female characters was kidnapped and tied to a bed and even at that young age, I was thrilled by it.

I have been talking to a man who I met on Bumble for a little over a month and we are both pretty much sexual chameleons, ready to explore and please our partners. He is enjoying stepping into this world as much as I am and I like that we are doing so together. Coming from a cult-ish religion and very vanilla sex in the past, I must admit I have never done anal and the thought is slightly terrifying yet also slightly arousing. I have a daughter and am a bit on the chubby side. This being said, I have some pelvic organ prolapse issues as well as some hemorrhoidal issues in the back door area. Is anyone experienced in these particular issues along with anal? Any advice?

Also, any advice for the new baby girl/brat? I absolutely LOVE it when he calls me baby girl, daddy’s girl, and his submissive pussy. And when he tells me I’m his good girl. We haven’t even had sex yet as we haven’t met in person yet. But I’m extremely horny and we have had phone sex quite a bit, me doing exactly as he tells me. I have never been so wet in my life! It has been amazing and I can’t wait for the real thing.

In “real life” I am actually a highly independent woman and single mother. I work a very demanding, high powered job in the construction industry where I have to be dominant, so this new submissive role for me is amazing. Being able to give control to him at the end of my day and in our semi sex life has been so relieving for me mentally and emotionally.

Anyhow, advice for this newbie is very welcome and appreciated.