A question I wanna ask to brats and tamers

What is the ratio of bratty interactions and outside-dynamic interactions with your partner?

On average, is it a 50% normal outside dynamic interaction and 50% brat dynamic interaction? Or do you lean into one side more than the other? Or do you brat all the time? (I know it is hard to quantify, but it would give me a good idea of what dynamics are generally like)

Have there been times where you had to adjust this ratio according to your partner's preference? If yes, how did you guys communicate it to each other? Any stories you can share would be great!

PS: I am just starting out to understand this dynamic. And have been wondering about this for quite a while now. The idea of both bratting and taming appeal to me quite a bit :)