i have very clear boundaries and standards when it comes to getting to know a potential “dom”. it’s taken me years in my sub journey to establish them and i’m very proud of myself for doing so. but im sick and tired of trying to get to know and vet doms just to get a bunch of push back and annoyance just bc i won’t do certain things and/or what to know more history about them. 1) i will NEVER submit to a stranger 2) we are not in a dynamic why are u treating me as such??? 3) what are u hiding? that you’re a fake dom?? 4) it’s just simply disrespectful and disgusting that u feel so entitled that i act a certain way just bc im a submissive. i don’t owe u jack shit!!!! and when i call them out on it i always get something along the lines of “you’re being brat and it’s unacceptable. u have to prove your submission…i’m the dom in charge blah blah blah” it’s so annoying and im just asking for very basic respect. rant over 😭