Hi! I’m having a conversation with a possible Sub and it could be my first experience. talking about kinks and what she needs she told me that humiliation and degradation is something not “necessary” but she clearly enjoys it.

The problem here is that I’m more the soft dom type; she seems sometimes the b-type but also enjoys being called cute names and cuddles. I asked her about her previous experiences what were tasks the she was given and she liked from her previous dom and most here are some examples

Spanking, wedgies, pulling hair she said she loves punishment. the feeling of not having control and having to obey. she said an example of taking out her tongue and putting on her mattress for some time she liked it because of the control she felt over her.

To add context her previous dom was an online dynamic and ours it is thought the same. I hope you can help me giving me advices on how to take out this sadistic part of me or how to be in her head without too much pain or have other ways to control her, I would really appreciate any advice on how to handle this.

English is not my first language so I apologize for any mistake, I actually deleted my original post because I noticed some mistakes thank you.