My husband/Dom and I have been married for 11 years. Woah, how the time flies!! For our anniversary, I told him that I would love to have a day where I'm just tied up and he takes advantage of me completely. Him being the sadistic pleasure Dom he is, decided that he would make a weekend out of it. 🤭🤭 Soooo if you like to read, heres a few highlights from our weekend:

The weekend started off well. I made plans for the house to be empty minus the pets. While I'm prepping everything for dinner, He gets home and starts talking about something involving me and being punished for my behavior throughout the week. So, remembering a post on here a few days ago ( https://www.reddit.com/r/BratLife/s/myXhus3rQlI ), I tell him "Silence Maiden, you will speak when given permission"

All he says is "I'll have to remember that one when you're all tied up." I had honestly expected some sort of smart ass remark from him already so instead of acknowledging that, I tell him "Noo...not yet" and he looks and he and goes "Huh?" And I dont say anything for a moment, but hes staring me down so it only takes me a few seconds before I move on to say, "Alright, since you're being so patient, you may speak" 😂😂

I promise you, that man stood up and grabbed my throat so fast. I halted everything and he leaned over and whispered in my ear "Don't let your food burn" and let go of me...🤭🤭 I was in a haze and just started stirring my food and he looks at me and says "So what were you saying?" I said "Hmm...cant recall" 😂😂

We sit down and eat our food and at one point he asks me how long I think it will be before he gives me permission to orgasm this weekend and I say "A loonggg time" and he goes "Oh, thinking about all the bad behavior you've been giving this past week?" And I tell him "Im definitely thinking about something" But he doesnt catch what I say and I dont elaborate.

After dinner, I clean up and I head to our room to grab something and He follows me and starts whooping me and throws me on the bed. He tells me thats for some of my bratty behavior and I tell him I have an anniversary present for him and ask if he want to see. He says yes and I pull out this cute lingerie teddy that I got last weekend. He tells me to put it on. So I do and thats when he goes to his case of torture and opens it. I smile and turn away, unable to hide my amusement when he asks "Where are my toys?" 😂😂 I say "Your toys? Idk...maybe you should keep better track of them🤷🏼‍♀️🤷🏼‍♀️" 😂😂 He says "Alright, I'm going to go get the slotted spoon from the kitchen" 😳😳 Bro...Im already in the teddy and this thing is see through af... so I real quick grab my robe and run out the bedroom. I grab the dog's leash and as he comes around the corner with the spoon, I announce that the dog needs to be let outside. 😅😅

He lets me take the dog out on her lead and when I bring the leash back inside, he grabs me and drags me back inside as well, whooping me with the spoon all the way to our room. He keeps going for a few minutes before I finally point out where the toys are. He tells me that I have until he brings the dog back in to have all of his toys back out.

Throughout the weekend, we did a lot of play but one particular moment I enjoyed was when he started doing a lot of sensory play and eventually pulls out the violet wand we have and grabs the flogger attachment. That one has been the most difficult one for me because it creates too much of a zappy feeling. Ive been wanting to find a way to get that piece to work with me so I can enjoy it more and asked him to make sure Im in a deep enough sub space to give it another try. He did this time and it was definitely working. Just before he planned on putting it away, he jokingly drug the whole flogger across my back. Obviously, we both expected a large reaction and I tensed up for a moment but when he pulled away, I realized it didnt hurt as bad as when he was being gentle with it and just lightly touching my skin. Honestly felt like someone giving me some good back scratchings. So I tell him "That actually felt good" and he does it again and says "You like that?" I give him the thumbs up so he does that along my entire body and Im in heaven. 🥰

On Saturday evening, we were talking about dinner and he decides since I've been so good, he'll let me leave the house so we can go to a restaurant. While there, I start acting silly and he goes into some sort of lecture about behaving (that I most definitely didn't pay any attention to) and all I hear was "Any more questions?" I couldnt help it...he left it so open...I say "Why are you a bitch?" All he says is "I'm going to remember that" 😳 I choose to play nice the rest of our meal and when we leave, He reminds me I have a punishment coming and I try to play dumb ask why. He only says "the bitch comment" and at first I try to back track, "No...I asked why I'M a bitch" 😂😂 he didnt fall for it and smacked my inner thigh. Im texting a friend that is also a Brat and she gave the suggestion that I should be rewarded for acting most myself (IE: I was bahaving) and I try to tell him that and he smacks my thigh again and says "There's your reward, but you still have a punishment coming" I try to tell him that its not on my reward list on obedience app and he smacked me again threatening to put it on. I told him I would never select that reward and he said "its free". 😂

Another highlight that ai really enjoyed was that we went to a members only club near us that was having a "Bondage night" on Saturday. The club connects to a dungeon and they open up everything for members to see both sides. We get into this very large room where one lady is giving a demo of their version of the violet wand. She had different attachements than what we had and one of them is a little string of metal beads and apprently gives more of a zap than the flogger (so of course, my Dom wants that one).

We also saw a couple giving fire massages. The first person I watched, someone asked how it felt and she says "It feels like Im on fire" and that made me a little nervous but I stayed in line to try it out. The next person goes up and she was so chill about it all, they finished off the massage with this soft looking paddle and tapped her butt twice and then did a double tap on her butt when she said they could keep going.

My turn comes, and they ask me to strip down to where I feel comfortable and I get up on the table. They start the massage and it feels wonderful! Like, it felt like a nice warm blanket running along my skin. He goes to the butt tap and I say one or two to see how I feel and he does and I say its fine to do the double tap. Then they rubbed aloe all over my backside for aftercare. Apparently the couple teaches classes for the massages so my Dom got their information to take classes. 😄

All in all, it was a very good weekend. We both sat down on the last night and realized it felt like we were coming back from a vacation we left for vs just being home the whole time. We both really enjoyed ourselves. 💯 💯