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Hey lovely Brats and Doms!
I'm looking for some advice on vetting potential new Doms.
I'm not really looking for a DS dynamic but as soon as I say I'm a sub the convo seems to take a turn...
What kind of questions should I ask, and what is a good way to explain that this is something to work towards?
Had a horrible experience yesterday with someone telling me being a sub means doing anything they say/want and saying thank you. I feel like I handled it poorly as I wasn't prepared to enter the discussion so early. I also typically use Reddit, Fet or FetLife for when I am searching. This guy was off Tinder and someone I actually knew back in the day 🤦🏽♀️
Thank you all for your suggestions and support. I'm feeling kinda defeated lately. Never anticipated it being so difficult finding decent guys out there. I keep saying I'm going take a break and focus on myself...I should really listen to my own advice!
Yeah I will try to push back more. I did tell him I wanted to at least see if we vibed in person before going into that stuff but he was pushing....clearly because he had an agenda of what he wanted...
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Oh I know. I told him he was a fake Dom and that I don't play that way and blocked/deleted. I was so grossed out by the way he thought. He also said he had 7 subs before and "3 good ones." I feel bad for those women