I have an idea for the brats who like to goad their doms into spanking them. Call your dom over to you and have them sit down. Calmly explain that they're in trouble (preferably for a small or ridiculous reason. Ex. It's been 3 hours since you called me a good girl) and that you need to punish them. Tell them that their punishment is that they have to spank you until they learn their lesson.

Tell them that this hurts you more than it hurts them, but it's a sacrifice you're willing to make. Get into your favorite spanking position. If they refuse, ask them, "I'm sorry? Who makes the rules here?" If they say that they do, you can counter with, "I didn't ask who THINKS that they make the rules. I asked who MAKES the rules. Now get over here and take your punishment, insert honorific/title."

This can result in a funishment or an unwanted punishment. I would reccomend it if you particularly feel like rolling the dice. If they ask, "Why does my punishment feel like it's a reward for you?" Do not be discouraged. You can say, "I take disciplining you VERY seriously. How DARE you assume that this is somehow about me?? Now spank me before I add ten more spanks to your punishment." I hope this helps 😊.