TLDR: Need all the links to beginners guide for bdsm, specifically ones that discuss bdsm structure and how to safely find a good partner

Hey all you wonder brats and tamers! I made a new friend, yay me lol. She's 100% new and just beginning to dip her toes into bdsm. She is currently talking to a potential dom and trying to understand how bdsm dynamics work and what she's is into and wants from them. Unfortunately from what's she's told me about said "dom" it sounds like she may have picked up a fake one and is being manipulated and misinformed about how these type of relationships are built.

That's where you guys come in, I need all thoes links and posts about beginners and how to practice bdsm safe and consensualy and how to vet the fake dom from the real ones. I've seen some amazing advice on here and BDSMcommunity but ofcous, can't find it now that I'm looking.

Love you guys and appreciate your help! Let's get this girl educated and playing safe 😁