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Feeling pretty neglected and low in confidence the last few weeks, which results in me acting like a huge brat without even trying.. But I think itās making everything worse and I donāt know how to fix it atm! Tips for spicing things up in your marriage when the honeymoon stage ends? I feel like heās exceptionally bored lately and possibly even looking for help elsewhere which only makes me a sad little duck if heās being secretive or hiding it from me.. any help or advice would be greatly appreciated š„¹š„¹
Not really in depth, weāve just kinda played around with it a bit. You saying that though does make me think and I feel like maybe heās tried to test it out in the past but was afraid to come right out and discuss it. Weāre both pretty quiet people so he doesnāt really say what heās thinking all the time
Of course! Iām the same way so I totally get it š
Well we live together but he also works from home so we are kinda together 24/7. I phrase it that way because I see how he could potentially get tired of being with me constantly after being a bachelor for so long. I told him before that I didnāt mind him talking to other people, I know he has dating apps on his phone and I donāt care if he sleeps with other people, but I donāt want him doing it behind my back. I feel like heās afraid to go out to do things alone because heās worried ill get mad or jealous but I just want him to be happy and know that he can be honest and himself with me
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No, I fully appreciate the honesty and feedback so thank you!! I am so tired of people trying to lie and sugar coat things to āprotect meā lol. I definitely need to get better at speaking up when things bother me, thatās a huge problem with me that Iām trying to work on. Iāve noticed in my partner that we have a lot of very similar qualities, and not being able to communicate/shutting down or getting quiet when life gets tough is a huge one for us both. Do you have any suggestions on how to initiate the conversation with him? I love this manās guts, and he was my best friend before I fell hard for him so I donāt want to fuck it up completely..