My dear brats, as my title stated I need your advice.

My little one accepted a job offer on the west coast. I knew I could not hold her here, because it was in her best interest, and her future to take this job.

We have been trying our best at a long distance relationship, but it's not quite the same.

The intimacy is gone, and while we can play over the phone, and the internet it lacks in substance.

As her Dom, My ultimate goal was to assist in her growth as a person, and help her along the way in her life.

We had been together for 5 years, and her growth as a person / individual has been remarkable. She is no longer the shy retiring type, who was basically afraid of her own shadow.

She has now grown into a very confident, self-assured, capable individual, ready to tackle the world on her terms.

So my quandary is this; while I will always love and care for her, I knew when she accepted this job offer, I would have to let her go her own way. (There was a ton of tears shed on both our parts when I let her go.)

I certainly do not plan to cut her out of my life, because she was and is very important to me.

Yet, I feel I do her a disservice if I (we) hang on to each other as Dom and sub, too long.

So my question is this, what is the best way to let her go as my sub without breaking our ties with each other ?

And on top of that I will need to find a cure for my loneliness.