I’m a great believer that it’s a brat’s moral duty to test the limits of what they can get away with as often as possible. But what I can never quite figure out is how quickly it’s appropriate to start doing that when you’re just starting to get to know a new domme.

On one hand if she doesn’t like my full on bratty self it’s better to learn that sooner rather than later. But on the other I can see a few strategic benefits to lulling her in to a false sense of security with a bit of toeing the line before I let the chaos take her by surprise.

Also she’s said more than once that she can handle me easily and that I can be as bratty as I want which just sounds like a challenge to me, my ego is definitely telling me to let all hell break loose just to prove her wrong.

What do you guys do in this situation?