My wife has bpd and has been good for quite some time now all of a sudden she has become really bad off and I’m not sure what to do this time I noticed right around thanksgiving she wasn’t acting right she normally loves the holiday season but I could tell something was wrong when she wasn’t playing any Christmas music she finally told me the other day that she feels like nothing is real and everything is a dream I honestly didn’t know how to reply to that she has never said that before I just told her I was very sorry that she was feeling that way and that I was there for her today we went to the movies with our kids then we get home and she wants to go for a walk and when she came home from her walk she was in a very angry mood and told me she wants a break she said she loves me but just wants to be alone but honestly I love her so damn much and don’t want to worry about her I’m just lost and don’t really know what to do or how to properly be there for her this personality disorder has always been hard for me to deal with because to this day 6 years and 2 kids later 95% of our fights are caused by it I’m just lost and really need help to take care of her she is the love of my life ❤️