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Iāve come to realize Iām just naturally a manipulative person.
Just on a constant day to day, hour to hour basis I manipulate every conversation and everyone I interact with. But Iām not talking on like this big large scale, I mean just like manipulating conversations to get someone to like me or get what I want out of something. Thereāsrarely a āvictimā, I never hurt anyone per se but Iāve just realized that subconsciously everything I say and do is not really what I think Iām just saying what I know the other person would want to hear.
Itās exhausting and itās gotten to the point I donāt even know whatās real anymore.
Like, everyday is just me turning on this fake persona and manipulating and carefully maneuvering every single conversation I have to give myself the outcome I want. Itās just completely second nature.
Anyone else experience this?
It can be intentional and unintentional. I never wanted to be able to manipulate people but I can and do. Most of the time I do not realise Iām doing it
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