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How to start a chat with someone you know nothing of
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Update : I contacted her. We seem to be chatting nicely. She is also not used to it but i guess if both parties is putting effort then its all good. Thanks for the input guys i appreciate all of it.

TLDR: How to suddenly whatsapp a girl whom number is given by your girl friend

Im a 23M malay, currently single, and working. Never used any dating apps. I dated before during my studies. How did I approach girls before was i already knew them, be friends with them and it goes by that.

So my very close schoolmate (male) just got married and it struck me. How would i get into a relationship at this age? Single is nice im working 9-5 and go the gym later. Sometimes gaming at night until 10. Badminton and futsal on the weekends, going out eating with family and lepak with friends. Many of my friends already started to lock in.

I want to get into a serious relationship and get married at earliest 25? I have no specific target on that. So my girl friend recommended me her friend and gave me her contact number. She is really cute but how the heck should i start the conversation?? Im thinking of “hello ni kawan nurul ke? Boleh ke nak kenal” is that weird.

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The best way is probably have your friends invite both of you out and then introduce you two to each other, just suddenly messaging her would be not a good move.

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Then at least have your friend inform the girl about you having her number and wanted to know each other. Some people don't really like their numbers being given out to unknown person after all.

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