You guys were right. We have flexible work arrangements wo we usually met once a week because when I came to office she didn't and vice versa so after awhile not seeing her, I feel more neutral towards her and not some puppy in love dude.

Fast forward till last night I was invited to her event now (the last she was invited to my event, so full circle moment lol), I wasn't gonna come because it's in the middle of KL at night but then I saw her name then I'm like okay fine.

I came then I networked with some people and she approached me to talked to me and take me to my table. For context l:

1. I was only invited them day before because this isn't my department's event.

2. She have other female friends at the office.

3. She help arrange the sit (the seat have names on it.

So guess who she put next to her instead of her other female office friends? this guy! Hahaha (I know, cringe, sorry).

And since I came until the end of the event, she and I just stick together and we spend the night having a 5 course meal at 5 star hotel together. (Side note: hotel food sucks, but we had a lot of fun making fun of them).

I took you guys advice and take it slow, make conversation with her, get to know her, makes her laugh and I was just chill, I wasn't trying to court her or swept her off her feet, I feel like we're friends who just getting to know each other.

Now my feelings towards her are more neutral but I still want to make her my gf because we just, clicked and have chemistry, and she's so cute and we can spend the night just the two of us talking and that's a pretty good start for me.

Should I double down and contact her more often or should I back off for now, like playing it cool?

I know this is cringee arghhhhh I hate it when I like someone but yeah, thanks for the advices on the last post.