Hey, I'm posting this comment here to hope for advice.. if any is possible that is. Been hovering in this sub for a while but this is my first post here. Thank you for reading.

I've tried to have sex. Once. It was a disaster and I felt awful afterwards. I've been questioning my sexuality (Ace) for a while and now my gender as well... so that's fun..

I'm unhappy with who I am every time I look in the mirror but I can never put my finger on exactly why, but either way it gives me next to no confidence whatsoever.

I'm tried dating subs, tinder, Hinge, Bumble and even fetlife yet I can't see to get anywhere at all. I've been told on one occasion (when posting in a ace dating sub reddit) that had I posted in a allosexual group I'd of been inundated. Yet I have, and I haven't.

I absolutely hate all this. My depression and anxiety I experience have basis' in other areas and experience but all of this has its effects too.