Recently purchased Barney. I love it and my wife loves getting something extra! The quality and fit are amazing!

Do to mutual agreement, our sex life is primarily me pleasuring her whenever she wants. My penis is involved at a maximum of once a month and usually much less often. I have lined our toy drawer with a heating pad so that I can keep everything warmed up and ready for when my wife decides I should service her.

That has worked very well. The problem is that I never really know when I'll be allowed to use Barney. So even though he is always warmed up the process of rolling him to put him on is kind of a mood killer. I've tried rolling him and keeping him that way with a rubber band if I think (hope) I'll need him. Unfortunately that is usually wishful thinking and it's getting kind of old rolling him and then having to unroll him all the time.

Has anyone tried keeping their sleeves rolled up and ready all the time? Or will doing that distort their shape over time?

Any advice will be appreciated!