Nov 2024 will be our (41m/40f) second Bliss Cruise. We had a fantastic time on our first one in Nov 2023. Everyone was so friendly and helpful. However, I do see posts talking about people wasting time with dirty vanillas when they could have been hooking up with genuine swingers. Wanting to be mindful here, we have a couple of questions:

1) How do you politely tell people that we don't swing without coming off as rude? On our last cruise, we told people we didn't swing when anything related to the topic was brought up. After reading other threads, I noticed we should be more upfront about that information. However, stating that we don't swing whenever we talk to someone seems presumptuous. How do you communicate that respectfully?

2) Are there ways to meet non-swingers on the cruise? It's not because we don't want to talk to swingers. Y'all are really really fun. But we want to ensure you're not wasting time chatting us up when you could be more productive with other couples. On the last cruise, there were non-swingers meet and greets. Whenever we went to those events, we didn't find any non-swingers.

Again, I'm not complaining that there are swingers on a swinger cruise. I would like to figure out how to not negatively impact your experience since we're not there for the same reasons.