I had sex with this guy I met off Reddit then the morning after came and I couldn’t believe what he said. We were just having a discussion about sex and meeting people online. I openly and freely spoke about my sexual fantasies and desires throughout our encounter. I can’t for the life of me remember exactly what he said but I do remember what it was about! He asked something like if there was something going on in my life (I guess psychologically) that has caused me to go online and seek sexual partners. I immediately told him “You wouldn’t be asking me this if I were a guy” and “I just like sex thats it”. He backed off and we just left it at that. I got home and I left him a text message that says “Never question a woman’s sexuality…ever”. His response…. “Lmfao haha”. What is that supposed to mean? What no “oh sorry didn’t mean it that way”? Or something of the like? So rude. I guess this is what happens when you hook up with a guy fresh out of a divorce. So much emotional baggage! He was cheated on in the past and got all freaked out thinking he is cheating in spite of a finalized divorce! I think thats why he felt so intimidated that a grown woman (who is single mind you) took charge in the bedroom (no bdsm) and made it known what she wanted. Welp! Your intimidation is not my responsibility! No woman’s sexuality should ever be shamed or questioned. Something guys never suffer from. I’m highly ethical. I get tested, I never cheat on and I never cheat with anyone. You can question me about my views on infidelity, boundaries, std testing, and consent. Thats….about….it! Other than that let me do what hurts no one (responsibly of course)…..having sex. ✌️💁‍♀️