Hi everyone im a 23m bi switch who has been very curious and interested in blackmail. My problem is that im not sure if i should start out as a Sub or as a dom. So my question to you all is this should I start off finding a victim or searching for a good dom. If you ever please tell me is ur a dom or sub or switch or something else.

If u choose sub what is the best way i can go about finding a good dom who will respect my limits and know what they are doing

If you choose dom what kinda things should i be looking for when finding a good sub/victim.

And lastly feel free to leave any other thoughts you have. Ive done plenty with bdsm before I understand how to be save and vet people for the most part im mostly just looking for advice specific to this kink.

A lil ab me im into bondage, humiliation, begging, degradation, and bladder control. Im 6’1 165 lbs slightly on the skinny side but not too badly.

Thank you for all ur advice and have a great rest of ur day;)