I feel like i’m doing it wrong.

I’m a blackmailer/dom and I usually feel like my sequence of conversations aren’t what they’re supposed to be and that it seems boring.

I post my post. The “victim” DMs me and tells me their ASL, kinks, and limits. I ask them to send a pic. And then we discuss a safeword, and then I start to get stuck. I usually just ask a bunch of questions to get to know them and get some material but then I feel like I’m giving an interview lol.

Do you jump right in and make them start doing tasks? Do you start questioning them about their life or whatever you’re curious about? And how do your convos with your sub go after a couple days?

One time a sub with a tech kink wanted me to control his phone. So we download apps and stuff but he got scared so he blocked me and I felt bad. So I made a new account and told him that everything is disconnected and deleted and that he has nothing to worry about, and im glad he saw my texts and that he felt safe. 😭

So that’s also why I feel like im doing it wrong… because maybe i start off too strong.

Any advice?