Hello,

UPDATE: as I've clearly not made myself clear enough and it's quite annoying - please don't message me if you're not from the UK. I am NOT looking for an online dynamic. Please also don't message me if you're looking to be blackmailed. I am NOT a Dom, nor am I interested in being a blackmailer.

30F from the SE of the UK. I'm looking for to be blackmailed again. I've had one experience of this, which lasted about six month but ended due to a change in their circumstances. I've tried to dabble again since, however I've not found a dynamic that fits what I'm looking for. I'm not looking to just be blackmailed by anyone, I want to feel a connection with the person and for us to get along, a least a little, in a "vanilla" way.

I very much enjoyed the loss of control, the fear and being pushed and moulded slowly to suite someone else's desires. I'm really into the psychological elements and having my mind fucked with side of kink and I would be looking for someone who understands that side and also enjoys it.

I'm looking for something that's a slow burn. I don't want to just give up information, I want it taken from me or found. It would feel much more realistic, or if you were to lie and trick me to get things from me. Then, once you have what you need, the fun would really start...

I have been fantasing about being stalked (in person and online) and the feeling of helplessness that might come from that. I am keen for this to be a dynamic which ends up with me being used in person - I'd prefer by you, but also, I really like the idea of you blackmailing me into being your personal little slut, making me sexually serve people to please or entertain you. I have many other fantasies that I'm sure I'll let slip to you at some point, but hopefully you can get an idea of what I enjoy and see if that's a match to you.

My biggest kinks are : TPE, helplessness, bondage, humiliation & degredation, messy face, body writing, objectification & dehumanisation, rimming, edging & orgasm control and mild exposure. But I have many more. Limits to be discussed.

You would be: - ideally from the SE of the UK - as I said I would like to be able to have in person meets regularly at some point, if all works out. - Have experience and interest in similar kinks and dynamics. - Are cruel and mean, pushing my boundaries and flexing your control - But can be kind, soft and caring when needed. - Have a high sex drive - Enjoy playing with your prey and their mind and "the chase" as such. - Ethically Non-Monogamous/ Poly / Single. - Over the age of 25 and under the age of 50. - Can hold a conversation and use more than just a few word sentences to communicate.

Also, please let me know your age, if you're located in SE England (and if comfortable, what county you're in), and what it was you found interesting about my post in your message. I will also not be giving any information over to anyone straight away, including sending photos ect.